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There was this guy who believed very much in true love and
decided to take his time to wait for his right girl to appear. He
believed that there would definitely be someone special out there
for him, but none came. Every year at Christmas, his
ex-girlfriend would return from Vancouver to look him up. He was
aware that she still held some hope of re-kindling the past
romance with him. He did not wish to mislead her in any way. So
he would always get one of his girl friends to pose as his steady
whenever she came back. That went on for several years and each
year, the guy would get a different girl to pose as his romantic
interest.
So whenever the ex-girlfriend came to visit him, she would be led
into believing that it was all over between her and the guy. The
girl took all those rather well, often trying to casually tease
him about his different girlfriends, or so, as it seemed! In
fact, the girl often wept in secret whenever she saw him with
another girl, but she was too proud to admit it. Still, every
Christmas, she returned, hoping to re-kindle some form of
romance. But each time, she returned to Vancouver feeling
disappointed.

Finally she decided that she could not play that game any longer.
Therefore, she confronted him and professed that after all those
years, he was still the only man that she had ever loved.
Although the guy knew of her feelings for him, he was still taken
back and have never expected her to react that way. He always
thought that she would slowly forget about him over time and come
to terms that it was all over between them. Although he was
touched by her undying love for him and wanted so much to accept
her again, he remembered why he rejected her in the first
place-she was not the one he wanted. So he hardened his heart and
turned her down cruelly. Since then, three years have passed and
the girl never return anymore. They never even wrote to each
other. The guy went on with his life still searching for the
one but somehow deep inside him, he missed the girl.

On the Christmas of 1995, he went to his friends party
alone. Hey, how come all alone this year? Where are all your
girlfriends? What happened to that Vancouver babe who joins you
every Christmas?´, asked one of his friend. He felt warm and
comforted by his friends queries about her, still he just
surged on.

Then, he came upon one of his many girlfriends whom he once
requested to pose as his steady. He wanted so much to ignore her
.. not that he was impolite, but because at that moment, he
just didn t feel comfortable with those girlfriends anymore.
It was almost like he was being judged by them. The girl saw him
and shouted across the floor for him. Unable to avoid her, he
went up to acknowledge her.

Hi how are you? Enjoying the party? the girl
asked.

Sure yeah! , he replied.

She was slightly tipsy must be from the whiskey on her hand.
She continued, Why? Don t you need someone to pose
as your girlfriend this year? Then he answered, No,
there is no need for that anymore.

Before he can continue, he was interrupted, Oh yes! Must
have found a girlfriend! You havent been searching for one
for the past years, right?´ The man looked up, as if he has
struck gold, his face beamed and looked directly at the drunken
girl. He replied, Yes, you are right! I havent been
looking for anyone for the past years.
With that, the man darted across the floor and out the door,
leaving the lady in much bewilderment. He finally realized that
he has already found his dream girl, and she was the
Vancouver girl all along! The drunken lady has said something
that awoken him.

All along he has found his girl. That was why he did not bother
to look further when he realized she was not coming back. It was
not any specific girl he was seeking! It was perfection that he
wanted, and yes perfection! Relationship is something both
parties should work on. Realizing that he had let away someone so
important in his life, he decided to call her immediately. His
whole mind was flooded with fear. He was afraid that she might
have found someone new or no longer had the same feelings
anymore For once, he felt the fear of losing someone.

As it was Christmas eve, the line was quite hard to get through,
especially an overseas call. He tried again and again, never
giving up. Finally, he got through. precisely at 1200
midnight. He confessed his love for her and the girl was moved to
tears. It seemed that she never got over him! Even after so long,
she was still waiting for him, never giving up.

He was so excited to meet her and to begin his new chapter of
their lives. He decided to fly to Vancouver to join her. It was
the happiest time of their lives! But their happy time was
short-lived. Two days before he was supposed to fly to Vancouver,
he received a call from her father. She had a head-on car
collision with a drunken driver. She passed away after 6 hours in
a coma.

The guy was devastated, as it was a complete loss. Why did fate
played such cruel games with him? He cursed the heaven for taking
her away from him, denying even one last look at her! How cruel
he cursed! How he damned the Gods! How he hated
himself for taking so long to realize his mistake!! That was
in 1996.

Moral: Treasure what you have Time is too slow for those who
wait, Too swift for those who fear, Too long for those who grief,
Too short for those who rejoice, But for those who love Time
is Eternity. For all you out there with someone special in your
heart, cherish that person, cherish every moment that you spend
together that special someone, for in life, anything can happen
anytime. You may painfully regret, only to realize that it is too
late.

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